Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Bombay HC: Mere harassment not same as domestic cruelty
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Misuse of IPC 498A Dowry Harassment Laws - The Bared Naked Truth
Misuse of IPC 498A Dowry Harassment Laws - The Bared Naked Truth
Wasif Ali slams Feminists' web of lies on Gender Discourse programme of LOKSABHA TV on 28 Aug 2011
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Thursday, March 3, 2011
Misuse of dowry provisions is legal terrorism: Delhi Court
Misuse of dowry provisions is legal terrorism: Delhi Court
Smriti Singh, TNN, Mar 3, 2011, 01.39am IST
NEW DELHI: Terming the misuse of provisions of dowry harassment by women as "legal terrorism'', a trial court has slammed such women who, in a bid to settle scores, drag all family members into a dowry harassment case though they may be "totally unconnected" with the case.
"The provisions of Section 498A are not a law to take revenge, seek recovery of dowry or to force a divorce but a penal provision to punish the wrongdoers. The victims (women) are often misguided into exaggerating the facts by adding those persons as accused who are unconnected with the harassment under a mistaken belief that by doing so they are making a strong case," additional sessions judge Kamini Lau said.
The court's remarks came while discharging a man, who was chargesheeted by police for allegedly harassing his sister-in-law for dowry. A metropolitan magistrate had summoned the man on the basis of the complaint. The man had moved the sessions court challenging the magistrate's order saying there was no legal evidence against him.
Even as the complainant alleged that the man beat her up for dowry, the court was shocked to know that he was not even present in the house at the time of the incident. In her complaint, the woman alleged that her brother-in-law on October 23, 1998, asked her to bring more money for her husband and when she showed her helplessness, she was slapped and threatened by him.
The man, however, proved his innocence by producing the certificates which stated that he was living in Mumbai at the time of the incident. After going through the record, ASJ Lau said, "in any matrimonial dispute, it is the primary duty of every court to ensure that for any fault of the husband, his other relatives including married sisters and brothers who may be living jointly or separately and the aged parents are not involved either out of vengeance or to curl out appropriate settlement."
The court also expressed its displeasure over the misuse of the dowry harassment laws. "I am compelled to observe that provision in the recent years has become consummate embodiment of gross human rights violation, extortion and corruption and even the Apex Court of our country had acknowledged this abuse and termed it as legal terrorism," it said.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Live-In Relationship-Perspective of Indian Women- Misuse of ANTI-MALE Marital laws 498a Dowry laws-Men Husband need Protection-P7 news KAYDA KANOON 26sep10
Live-In Relationship-Perspective of Indian Women- Misuse of ANTI-MALE Marital laws 498a Dowry laws-Men Husband need Protection-P7 news KAYDA KANOON 26sep10
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Thursday, September 23, 2010
Swastika Mukherjee admits her dowry harassment allegations were false – Blatant misuse of 498a and dowry laws and still go scot free. Misusers and abusers of judicial and police machinery should be severely punished
Swastika Mukherjee admits her dowry harassment allegations were false
Kolkata, Sept 23 (IBNS): Tollywood actress Swastika Mukherjee has confessed in a media conference that the dowry harassment allegations she made against her estranged husband were false, apparently bringing a closure to an episode that has been playing out amidst full media glare for ten years.
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“I was young, I did not have enough sense back then and I did what my family, friends and peers advised me to do,” is how Swastika on Wednesday chose to explain why she falsely accused her husband singer Promit Sen of “subjecting her to cruelty” and “criminal breach of trust”.
Swastika’s shocking but predictable confession comes a day after she apparently submitted an affidavit at a city court admitting that the charges she made against her husband and her in-laws under Indian Penal Code 498A and 406 were “unfounded, false, baseless and speculative”.
Swastika and Promit, the youngest son of renowned Rabindrasangeet exponent Sagar Sen, were married in June 1998, when the actress was just 18.
“Things started to go wrong around two years later when like a bolt from the blue my brother, our family and even me, who all lived in different places, were charged by her for dowry related crimes,” said Pritam Sen, Promit’s elder brother, who also attended the press conference.
“We went through hell for the past ten years. So many arrest warrants, all the expenses and the defamation aside, my brother is never going to get back the last ten years. He’s totally mentally devastated,” he added.
Though divorce was reportedly filed by Swastika in 2001, the cases are still under legal red tape.
Pritam said recently Swastika had issued a press release which after being published in the media made it seem as if the two parties had reached a compromise and were heading for divorce which was definitely not the case.
Hence Wednesday’s press conference was called by the actress “to come clean”.“I am deeply sorry for all that Promit and his family has had to go through. I hope he can move on,” said Swastika.
“As far as the custody of our daughter Anwesha is concerned, lets see what plays out. She’s a ten-year-old girl and she too has a say in this,” she said.
When asked what drove her to suddenly make such an effort, she replied that it was not out of any pressure but just a “realisation”.
Sources, however, say this might be just a coup to get the divorce the 30-year-old actress, who is known for her ‘who cares’ attitude and has not exactly had the smoothest relationships over past few years, has been after for quite some time.
Pritam, however, said he and his family were pleased at Swastika’s confession.He said, “I think we should give her the benefit of the doubt. Let’s see what this leads to. But we’ll not accept anything but a genuine apology.”
The Sen family is apparently not mulling pressing charges on the actress since they are “not vindictive people”, said Pritam.
The confession, apart from sending gossip mills in overdrive, also sheds light on the Indian Penal Code which leaves the door for such a heavy-handed charge wide open for misuse.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Woman unable to choose between parents, husband
Woman unable to choose between parents, husband
CHENNAI: Caught between her husband and her parents, a 25-year-old M Phil degree-holder expressed contrasting views — one inside the court and another as she was coming out of it — on Monday, and ended up in a Government Home in Mylapore.
It was high drama on the Madras High Court premises when Deepa, who was produced before a division bench comprising Justice M Chockalingam and Justice M Sathyanarayanan, following a habeas corpus writ petition by her husband Manimaran, told the court that she wanted to go with her parents but changed her mind when she came out.
When her father, Sakthivel, and some relatives tried to drag Deepa towards a car despite her protests and cries, advocates on the premises intervened. Deepa was again produced before the judges in their chambers, where Advocate R C Paul Kanakaraj told them she wanted to join her husband but was being prevented by her father and his henchmen.
The bench, in its second brief order, said, “In appraisement of the situation and in view of the safety of the detenue”, Deepa will stay at the government home “until further orders” — and made it clear that neither Manimaran nor Sakthivel should disturb her.
According to Manimaran’s advocate Y Deva Arul Prakash, the couple got married on October 10, 2008, but started living together only this June as they had been pursuing their studies –– Manimaran was doing his BL. On August 13, Sakthivel took his daughter away by force, prompting the habeas corpus petition seeking that she be produced in court. Both Deepa and Manimaran are Dalits but he is a Christian, whereas she is a Hindu.
http://expressbuzz.com/cities/chennai/woman-unable-to-choose-between-parents-husband/208671.html
Sunday, September 12, 2010
The Economic Value of Homemaking
The Economic Value of Homemaking
The History of Homemaking
A homemaker is a person whose main activity is to care for a family and home. This is traditionally an unpaid occupation.
In an effort to understand the value of a private homemaker’s unpaid labor, experts have attempted to quantify the dollar value of the job. No one has come up with a perfectly accurate way to do so.
Four different methods of assessing the economic value of homemaking are listed below. Each method has serious drawbacks and disadvantages.
NOTE: Women Work! does not promote one method over another; we have simply gathered the following data for your information.
Opportunity Cost
In economics, the opportunity cost is the value of what someone gives up when they choose to do something else. The opportunity cost, or trade-off, of homemaking is the income the homemaker would have earned if she had been in the paid workforce. If a woman could have earned $20,000 per year as a bookkeeper, but instead was a homemaker for 15 years, the opportunity cost of being a homemaker would be $300,000.
Problems:
If a woman had not become a homemaker, she may have achieved a higher level of education, received promotions, or even changed career paths. There is no way to truly know what her income would have been if she had stayed in the workforce. Women’s work in paid employment is frequently undervalued. They often earn less money than men who hold the same or comparable positions. Using these undervalued wages to determine the value of homemaking undervalues homemaking as well.
Replacement Cost
This method evaluates homemaking by determining how much it would cost to replace a homemaker with paid workers. All of the homemaker’s tasks and the amount of time spent on each are listed in the table on page 1 of this tip sheet. The hourly rate to hire an individual to perform each of these tasks is determined, and the cost is added up.
Problems:
This method does not take into account the premiums that would have to be paid to get a professional to do the task for a small portion of time or to be on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
The cost to hire an individual to complete a particular task could vary greatly. For example, when estimating the value of a mother’s care for her children, should you equate a mother’s care to the time and care given by a typical child care worker or a child development specialist? Depending on which you use, the value of homemaking is very different.
Many jobs done by homemakers are undervalued in the paid economy. Most child care workers, cleaning personnel and food service employees receive very low wages, few benefits and little opportunity for growth and advancement within the field. Valuing homemaking in this way reflects the undervaluing of these tasks.
Replacement Cost
This method evaluates homemaking by determining how much it would cost to replace the homemaker by hiring one individual to complete all of her tasks.
Problems:
As noted before, domestic workers are generally undervalued in our economy. When using these depressed wages to place a value on homemaking, we are undervaluing homemaking. For example, the median hourly earning, as listed in the May 2004 National Occupational Employment and Wage Estimates for the Department of Labor, Bureau of Labor Statistics, for the occupation of Home Health Aide is $8.81. Based on this value, a full-time (40 hours/week) worker earns $18,324 per year (52 weeks/year). This value is below poverty level for the average family of four ($18,850 a year).
http://www.womenwork.org/resources/tipsheets/valuehomemaking.htm
Partnership
In this method, it is assumed that a marriage is an equal economic partnership, that there is an equal division of responsibilities and that all the gains of partnership are shared equally by the partners. When a wife takes on the role of a homemaker, it allows her husband to earn income without being overburdened by family and household responsibilities. Using this method, a homemaker is worth half of her husband=s salary.
Problems:
The wife of a man who earns $20,000 does not necessarily have half of the duties of the wife of a man who earns $40,000. In other words, her value is not dependent on her own productivity, only on that of her husband. This method also assumes the homemaker has a partner.
Quick Tips for Financial Stability
- Pay off debt, contribute as much as possible to retirement funds and keep a hefty emergency fund.
- Get insured.
- Make sure you have retirement savings in your own name.
- Consider working at least part-time once your children are school-age.
Tip sheet last updated 11/05
Its complicated The twilight area between marriage and divorce
Its complicated The twilight area between marriage and divorce
Many estranged couples choose to separate, but not divorce. Seema Sinha meets some to discover how they negotiate their parallel lives
Breaking all convention, Babita decided to walk out of the Kapoor household along with her two daughters, Karisma and Kareena. Reportedly, Babita could not cope with the larger-than-life figure of Randhir's father and filmmaker Raj Kapoor over his life. Decades later, Randhir Kapoor and Babita continue to remain husband and wife, though leading separate lives. "Randhir Kapoor believes in the sanctity of marriage. He has always said that she is the mother of their daughters," says Madhu Jain, author of Kapoors: The First Family of Indian Cinema.
The love has faded, but the couple is wary of looking for new partners. In another case, Ratna Adarkar (name changed) and her husband of 25 years have decided to live a life of compromise, sans the "hassles" of divorce. These are not the only ones who are choosing to stay in the twilight area between marriage and divorce. According to the experts, breaking up is hard — and expensive!
Long after romance is dead, a separation or "non-divorce" offers a happier alternative. Sometimes, they stay together to avoid the expenses of a new household. Actor Saif Ali Khan reportedly decided to divorce Amrita Singh only after his career zoomed with Dil Chahta Hai. Till then, they lived under the same roof, though they remained emotionally distant, reveals a veteran film journalist.
There are no hard statistics, but some divorce experts say they're seeing more of this phenomenon. Says psychiatrist Rajendra Barve, "This gives them space, minus the commitment, which is like having their cake and eating it, too. They may also want to avoid the 'stigma' of divorce." Remarks psychiatrist Kersi Chawda, "If neither plans to marry again, they may simply want to avoid the expenses and time that goes into legally ending their marriage."
Prominent actress Raakhee Gulzar and her writer- director husband Gulzar are one such couple, who have lived separately for years. Says senior film journalist Dinesh Raheja, "Their daughter Bosky kept them bonded. Gulzar and Raakhee would meet for her sake, attend PTA meetings together." In fact, when Gulzar won an Oscar for his contribution to the film Slumdog Millionaire, Raakhee commented that "her husband" was the best.
One of the most glaring examples in Bollywood is of high-profile star couple Rajesh Khanna and Dimple Kapadia, who also chose the middle path of 'non-divorce'. In the 80s, both the auburn-haired gorgeous Dimple as well as the yesteryear superstar wanted divorce, but when Rajesh Khanna began dodging Dimple's demand for financial security for her young daughters, the actress too refused to sign the divorce papers. "Her daughter Twinkle, in her teens then, strongly felt that her parents shouldn't be living together," says the veteran journalist.
Adds Dinesh, "But over the years, the bitterness between Rajesh and Dimple washed away. I have seen them enjoy a party together and found them very comfortable in each other's company. Dimple campaigned for him during elections and also worked in his film. I guess it has worked out for them living separately rather than coming home to be with each other."
Explains a marriage counsellor, "A couple may not legally divorce for the children's sake, or if there is the issue of division of wealth and inheritance. They may also want to keep up appearances in society."
Relationship experts say the arrangement can allow partners to discreetly date other people while keeping up an illusion of marriage for children and the community at large. And finances, significantly, stay intact. "They are really making pragmatic, businesslike decisions for their marriage," point out experts. Also, with both partners working, not all women care for alimony.
But, it may not always turn out favourable. Married for three years and separated for a year, Anandita, an investment banker, who has a one-year-old daughter, feels embittered and cheated by her philandering husband. "He has not filed for divorce and I don't want to either, because I don't want to remarry. I can't have a stranger in my life. When my daughter grows up, I don't want her to blame me for the separation," says Anandita, who is stuck with responsibilities while her husband has it easy.
Talking about the rights of women in such a situation, women's right lawyer Flavia Agnes, points out that women can claim maintenance and demand their right to stay in the same house. "Often, when men decide to remarry, they pressurise their spouse for divorce. Here, the wife can negotiate for a good settlement, a lump sum amount and shelter in the same house," says Flavia. A marriage counsellor adds that she has witnessed couples staying together despite disagreements to claim benefits of medical and pension plans.
However, can the so-called "non-divorced" ever move on emotionally? The emotional and legal closure of an official divorce may forever elude them. They can also find themselves in a difficult spot when one or both partners begin to seriously date again.
It's also financially risky, point out the experts. A partner who no longer lives with you can still ruin your finances or put you in debt.
On the other hand, if you gain assets, your partner could still legally claim half.
Their status is definitely complicated!
Friday, September 10, 2010
High-earning wives to end in divorce
High-earning wives to end in divorce
High-flying career women, who make more money than their husbands and end up becoming the chief breadwinners in their domestic partnerships, are more likely to end up in a divorce, revealed a study.
Researchers admit that the reason is unclear, but it may be that male pride is wounded by not being the biggest earner in the household.
The finding comes from a 25-year study of more than 2,500 marriages, hot on the heels of other research showing that househusbands are prone to affairs.
With almost one third of British women earning more than their men, the results could sow doubt in millions of minds.
For the study, American researchers studied the marriages and income of more than 2,500 women who married for the first time between 1979 and 2002.
They found that those women who consistently made more money than their husbands were up to 38 per cent more likely to divorce than others.
Jay Teachman, of Western Washington University, said there could be several reasons behind the statistic.
For instance, financial independence makes it easier for women to find a way out of an unhappy marriage. Besides, dented egos - of both sexes - may also play a role.
"There may be 'wounded pride' on the part of the male that may lead to tension in the relationship. It may also be the case that some women react negatively to a mate that does not earn as much as themselves," the Daily Mail quoted Teachman as saying.
A sudden increase in hours worked was also linked to marriage break downs, according to the Journal Of Family Issues.
"This may simply be a reflection of a woman beginning to work more in response," said the professor.
For a happy marriage, Professor Teachman recommends a 60:40 split in income, with the husband being the highest earner.
Forget about freedom: SC to husbands
Forget about freedom: SC to husbands – Marry to be slaved by wife and her parents- husbands to become pet doggy
11 Jun, 2010, 02.53AM IST,IANS
NEW DELHI: Married men should forget about their freedom after they tie the nuptial knot as restrictions on their independence are like “dividends” they have to pay for matrimony, the Supreme Court said on Thursday in a divorce suit.
“Whenever a person is married, there is no question of independence,” Justice Deepak Verma said, hearing a divorce suit between Colonel Ajit Sharma (name changed) and his estranged wife and software professional Seema Sharma (name changed).
By making the observations, the court revisited the remarks of the vacation bench of Justice Markandey Katju and Justice Verma of 2009 wherein it had said: “Do what the wife tells you and never question her authority.”
Justice Katju had said: “If men want to rule their life then they should always be on the right side of their wife. Otherwise, a defiant husband’s life would be ruled by others.”
He said that if the “wife says turn right, turn right and if she says turn left, then turn left”. On Thursday, the observation about husbands surrendering their independence came when the court was told that Seema had wished “happy Independence Day” to her husband when both of them filed a divorce suit by mutual consent.
The bench of Justice Verma and Justice K S Radhakrishnan was hearing an appeal filed by Ajit seeking divorce from his wife. They have a 14-year-old daughter Priyanka (name changed) studying at a boarding school in Dehradun.
Initially, the court said: “We are not made to break up marriages.” Thereafter, the court counselled the couple to go for reconciliation. The two were told by the court that for them, the welfare and the future of their child should be the top priority.
However, soon realising that the couple could not live peacefully under one roof, the court worked out a package that could mitigate the difficulties of the mother who was to bring up Priyanka after separation.
The court asked Ajit to suggest a package that he was willing to offer his estranged wife so that she could bear the expenses of bringing up their daughter. The court said that the package should factor in inflation, price rise and the cost of child’s education, her marriage and other needs. It gave Ajit time to think over it.
When SC resumed hearing, Seema was told that besides Ajit bearing entire expenses of Priyanka’s education till senior secondary, he would pay her Rs 4 lakh and give a 250 square metre plot in Secunderabad in Andhra Pradesh.
Ajit said she could dispose the house to mop up more money. The package was in addition to the Rs 1.50 lakh that has already been given to Seema by him. An insurance policy of Rs 5 lakh in the name of their daughter has also been given to her.
After a second adjournment, Seema told SC that she wanted a plot of land in Delhi or Gurgaon and demanded an arrangement for their daughter’s education after school.
Mom-in-law safe from Domestic Violence Act
Mom-in-law safe from Domestic Violence Act
BANGALORE: Can a woman try another woman under the provisions of the Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act, 2005? No, says the Karnataka High Court.
Clearing this confusion, the division Bench comprising Justice K L Manjunath and Justice B S Patil said a complaint under this act against her mother-in-law or sister-in-law or women relatives can be registered, but the police can initiate action against them (respondents) only under Section 498A of the IPC or any other suitable enactments of law.
The Bench gave this clarification while dealing with the petition filed by one Leelavati.
In respect of residential rights, custody rights or protection, women can file complaints against only male members under the Domestic Violence Act but not against female members like mother-in-law or sisters-in-law or any others, the division Bench clarified with regard to ambiguity of the meaning of the word relative, in the proviso in section 2(q) of the Act.
Leelavati, a resident of Okalipuram, had filed complaints against her husbandBhaskar, father-in-law Murugeshan, mother-in-law Nalini and sister-in-law Kavitha under this Act, before the magistrate court. This was challenged by her husband and others. The fast track court had ordered that except Bhaskar's, other names should be dropped from the complaint.
Leelavati challenged this decision before the high court. The single bench, while concurring with the fast track court, referred this matter to the division bench for clarification.
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http://www.deccanherald.com/content/95506/women-cant-respondents-hc.html
Women can't be respondents: HC
Bangalore, September 9, DHNS:
In a judgment that is bound to have wide social implications, a division bench of the High Court has ruled that a case filed under the Protection of Women From Domestic Violence Act, 2005 cannot include women as respondents.
A division bench comprising Justice K L Manjunath and Justice B S Patil has ruled that "the definition of the term 'respondent' as defined under Section 2(q) of the Act, does not include a female relative of the husband or the male partner of the aggrieved female or a female living in a relationship of the nature of a marriage."
The ruling stands apart from the ruling of four other High Courts of the country including the Delhi High Court. The matter had been referred to the division bench by a single judge to define the term 'respondent' following a petition filed by Leelavathi S against her father-in-law Murugesh, her mother-in-law Nalini and her sister-in-law Kavitha under the Domestic Violence Act.
The debate on the inclusion or exclusion of women as respondents under this Act has been a long standing one. Many have felt that the Act, which was meant to protect women also has become a tool for targeting women. The Indian Penal Code already allows a case to be filed against women under Section 498A for dowry harassment. A complaint filed under Domestic Violence Act also provides for the respondent to be removed from the shared household or can be prevented from entering the household
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
SPLIT WIDE OPEN
SPLIT WIDE OPEN
The courts will now take into consideration a man’s joint family finances when granting alimony. Smitha Verma looks at the repercussions
Illustration: Suman Choudhury
Ajay Sahai (name changed), an engineer from Mumbai, is a worried man. A recent Bombay High Court ruling is causing him sleepless nights. The court said a man’s joint family finances can be taken into account when the quantum of maintenance to be paid to his estranged or divorced wife is being considered. Sahai, who is fighting a divorce case in court, feels that the judgment may adversely affect him. “I fear this ruling will have a strong impact on my case,” he says.
Maintenance in a marital discord case has always been a troublesome issue — one side would feel it’s too little, and the other, that it’s too much. That’s why the Bombay High Court ruling — which asked a Pune businessman to pay his estranged wife Rs 20,000 instead of the Rs 2,500 that had previously been decided — has kicked up a furore. The court took into account his joint holdings in the family property and the family’s lifestyle while announcing the verdict.
Not everybody is happy with this. Groups that fight for men are perturbed. “This could lead to further misuse of Section 498A (anti-dowry law),” says D.S. Rao, president of Calcutta-based men’s advocacy group Hridaya. “Once we receive a copy of the judgment, we’ll see how to protect our interests,” says Rao.
Sahai, who lives in a joint family, cannot understand how undivided property can decide his social status. “I may inherit the property but how will I be able to pay a monthly maintenance based on my family property? My monthly income should be the deciding factor,” he says.
Clearly, the issue is a contentious one. While some lawyers stress that it will help women, others say it will put men in the dock. Neeraj Aggarwal, co-ordinator, Save Family Foundation, a Delhi-based group working for the interests of men, is among those troubled by the ruling.
Stressing that it can lead to irrational demands, he cites the example of a woman who demanded alimony from her father-in-law based on inheritance laws. “The woman had left her husband after he was diagnosed with cancer. After his death she demanded money from the family citing her right to the property,” says Aggarwal. “The trial court sympathised with her and awarded her maintenance,” he adds.
According to Niladri Shekhar Das, secretary, Gender Human Rights Society, a Delhi-based non governmental organisation, courts should examine the income tax returns of estranged parties before taking a decision on alimony. “What about the wife’s inheritance? Do our esteemed courts ever look into that,” Das asks.
There have been some rulings where a wife was asked to pay maintenance to her husband, or an unemployed man was absolved of the responsibility of supporting his estranged wife. But such cases, the men’s group argue, are rare. “This ruling is in violation of a previous Supreme Court judgment which said a wife’s maintenance should be based on a husband’s income and not of the in-laws’,” says Aggarwal.
Das points out that a woman cannot claim right to property which has been divided, and to which the husband has no share. “Only undivided property of a joint family — where the husband holds a share — can be looked at,” he says.
But those who hail the judgment point out that it has come in the wake of an increasing number of cases where husbands fighting a divorce do not disclose full details of family property in a bid to lower the maintenance amount they have to pay their wives. “There is lack of transparency in many cases when it comes to declaring assets. This way even if a property is in a joint holding, one can't evade the payment,” says Supreme Court lawyer Pinky Anand.
Anand believes the ruling will help women get proper alimony. “It is a commendable ruling and goes with the ethos of Indian society,” she says. She stresses that the treatment meted out to women is “shameful” when it comes to property. “We are still not giving women equal rights to property. I feel it’s a reasonable and appropriate order.”
Nidhi Suri (name changed) believes that the court has spoken up for women like her. Her husband had initially not disclosed details of an ancestral house in Chandigarh when they moved court for a divorce. “I hope the apex court takes this judgment as a landmark initiative to give a fair deal to estranged wives,” says Suri, a Jaipur-based media professional whose alimony case is pending in the Delhi High Court.
Anul Shiggaon, a Bangalore-based IT consultant, is on the other side of the fence. Shiggaon, who is without a job, has been embroiled in a maintenance case with his estranged wife for the past two years. “My wife, who is employed, has been awarded maintenance despite being able to support herself,” says Shiggaon, who has been asked to pay Rs 25,000 a month as maintenance. “I have a home loan and am struggling to maintain myself,” he adds.
Divorce lawyer Vijay Raj Mahajan believes the ruling merely means more litigation. “If the property is lying idle, such judgments can create problems for petitioners,” he says. The lawyer rues that maintenance often turns into a gender issue. “But maintenance is not a matter of right. It’s a question of whether one can maintain oneself or not,” adds Mahajan.
The ruling has brought several issues out in the open. And while people are divided over its merits, what is clear is that maintenance continues to be a thorny issue. And the judgment has only underlined the wall between the warring parties.
http://www.telegraphindia.com/1100901/jsp/opinion/story_12881183.jsp
SC - Women can file for divorce anywhere, high Court order on actor's divorce application upheld
SC - Women can file for divorce anywhere, high Court order on actor's divorce application upheld
Legal Correspondent
Friday, Aug 20, 2010
New Delhi: The Supreme Court on Thursday declined to interfere with a Madras High Court judgment holding that a family court in Chennai had the jurisdiction to decide the divorce case filed by Tamil actor Sukanya against her US-based husband.
A Bench of Justice P. Sathasivam and Justice B.S. Chauhan dismissed a special leave petition filed by R. Sridharan, challenging the High Court judgment. In a brief order, the Bench said, "We do not find any valid ground to interfere with the High Court order. The SLP is dismissed leaving open the question of law. If the appellant has any grievance he can approach the family court. Since the application [for divorce] is pending since 2004, we direct the family court to decide the matter in four months."
Justice Sathasivam told appellant's counsel K.K. Mani, "The facts are against you. There are many disputed facts. Whether the appellant is a US citizen; if so, when did he acquire US citizenship are all matters which can be adjudicated only by the family court."
Counsel Gita Rama Seshan, counsel for Ms. Sukanya, maintained that the Hindu Marriage Act would apply and the family court in Chennai would have the jurisdiction to decide the divorce application.
Justice Chauhan told counsel, "You [the appellant] have a residence in Chennai. You are visiting the place. Whether you have acquired properties are not, what your intentions are if you have acquired any property can be gone into only by the family court."
Mr. Mani, however, maintained that the house in Chennai belonged to his father and he did not own any property. But Justice Chauhan said, "These things can't be decided by us. Issues have to be framed and evidence has to be let in. There must be proper adjudication. But you did not allow the family court to decide anything. Even the question of jurisdiction could have been raised as a preliminary issue. But you have rushed to the High Court. Let the family court decide."
According to the appellant, his marriage with Ms. Sukanya's took place as per traditional Hindu customs at the Balaji temple in New Jersey, U.S., in April 2002. She returned to India in January 2003 and never went back.
On a writ petition filed by Mr. Sridharan — through his Power of Attorney R.V. Krishnan — challenging the matrimonial proceedings on the ground that he could not be subjected to Indian laws, a single judge and a Division Bench of the Madras High Court had held that Ms. Sukanya was entitled to file the petition in the place where she was staying.
The appellant's contention before the Supreme Court was it was settled law that in order to apply the provisions of the Hindu Marriage Act both parties must be 'domiciles' of India. As the appellant was a U.S. citizen, he could not be subjected to Indian jurisdiction and face the matrimonial proceedings which were not maintainable in law.
He argued that only the Foreign Marriage Act would apply to him.
http://www.hindu.com/2010/08/20/stories/2010082053400400.htm
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Divorce at 70? Plan some spiritual growth, says Supreme Court
Divorce at 70? Plan some spiritual growth, says Supreme Court
Saturday, Aug 28, 2010
At the age of 70, it’s time to go on a pilgrimage to Hardwar and be divorced from the material world, instead of being engaged in a prolonged legal battle for divorce.
These are the words of the Supreme Court for an aged Juhu couple, seeking separation under the Hindu Marriage Act.
Making a bid to make them conscious that the age is catching up, apex court judges on Thursday counseled petitioner Veena, 70, and her husband, Govardhan Kapoor, 75, to share the roof. However, the court suggested that if the two wish, they may keep themselves separated by a wooden partition.
Veena doesn’t want to share the apartment with Govardhan and contested a Bombay high court judgment last year that made her share the accommodation as per a mutual agreement between them in the divorce case.
The couple married in Delhi on April 26, 1969. They have two sons — Navin, 36, who lives in America, and Sachin, 33, lives with his father.
In 1981, the couple started litigation after Govardhan suffered heavy losses in his business. Charges and counter charges ensued and Govardhan alleged that his wife had an extra-marital affair.
Govardhan’s case got stronger after Sachin testified in favour of the allegation.
While Govardhan moved a law suit seeking an injunction against Veena from dispossessing him from the flat, she sought a direction asking him not to enter the house.
Govardhan agreed to the term that Veena is the owner of the flat but he would live there with certain conditions that included installing separate electric meters and demarcating territory with a wooden partition.
But Veena’s lawyer DK Garg on Thursday told a bench headed by justice GS Singhvi that she couldn’t be expected to live under the same roof particularly when she had been accused of being in an adulterous relationship. She lamented that even her son had also sided with his father.
Disposing of her petition, the court said: “You can’t throw out the aged husband, but you can get the son out.”
Unemployed man can't be forced to pay maintenance to wife ,there is no legal presumption that behind every failed marriage there is either dowry demand or domestic violence. Marriages do fail for various other reasons.:Delhi HC
Unemployed man can't be forced to pay maintenance to wife,there is no legal presumption that behind every failed marriage there is either dowry demand or domestic violence. Marriages do fail for various other reasons:HC
New Delhi, Aug 27, (PTI):
An unemployed man cannot be forced to pay maintenance to his estranged wife, the Delhi High Court on Friday ruled saying that in an era of equality of sexes a person cannot be compelled to maintain others if spouses are on an equal footing.
"Under prevelant laws, a husband is supposed to maintain his unearning spouse out of the income he earns. No law provides that a husband has to maintain his wife, living seperately from him, irrespective of the fact whether he earns or not," Justice S N Dhingra said.
The court passed the order while setting aside the order of a family court which had directed the husband, who was unemployed, to pay a maintenance of Rs 5,000 to his wife.
The court said the wife, who was equally qualified as her husband and was working in an MNC, cannot ask for maintenance from her husband who lost his job.
"Court cannot tell the husband that he should beg, borrow or steal but give maintenance to his wife, more so when the husband and wife are almost qualified and capable of earning and both of them claimed to be gainfully employed before marriage," the court said while granting relief to the husband who was an NRI working in Angola in Africa.
"We are living in an era of equality of sexes. The Constitution provides equal treatment to be given irrespective of sex, caste and creed. An unemployed husband who is holding an MBA degree cannot be treated differently to an unemployed wife who is also holding an MBA degree.
"Since both are on equal footing, one cannot be asked to maintain the other unless one is unemployed and the other is employed," the court said.
http://www.deccanherald.com/content/91906/unemployed-man-cant-forced-pay.html
also @
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/unemployed-man-cant-be-forced-to-pay-alimony-hc/673385/
http://www.hindustantimes.com/Unemployed-man-can-t-pay-maintenance/Article1-592789.aspx
http://news.in.msn.com/national/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4314490
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Changes in the dowry law ( IPC 498a ) will shut out frivolous complaints – commoners’ viewpoint
Changes in the dowry law will shut out frivolous complaints
The Supreme Court’s decision to ask the government to reconsider the anti-dowry law — Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code — is welcome (Change dowry law: SC to govt, August 15). It is well-known that most dowry-related
accusations invariably lead to the imprisoning of the husband and his relatives. The draconian law does not have any space for judicial inquiry and relies solely on complaints. It should be withdrawn. There is an urgent need to re-examine other anti-dowry laws too, which are no better. At the same time, one wonders why courts do not put women complainants in jail for fraudulent cases that are filed only to harass husbands. There have been several instances when women have filed the cases, made their husbands and relatives appear before the courts and then have either failed to pursue them or withdrawn the cases later. Imagine the mental and physical torture that husbands have been made to undergo! Why can’t the courts jail the complainants for misleading the police, the judiciary and people?
Devinder Sharma, via email
Saturday, August 21, 2010
मेरी पत्नी किन्नर है..
मेरी पत्नी किन्नर है..
मुरादनगर। मुरादनगर के एक युवक ने अपनी पत्नी को किन्नर कह कर उससे तलाक लेने का फैसला लिया है। युवक का कहना है कि उसके ससुराल वालों ने उससे 50 हजार के गहने लेकर अपनी किन्नर बेटी से उसका विवाह करा दिया।
युवक मुरादनगर स्थित एक इंजीनियरिंग कॉलेज में काम करता है। उसने कोर्ट में याचिका दायर की है कि राजनगर के एक कॉलेज में काम करने वाला शख्स अपनी बेटी का रिश्ता लेकर उसके पास आया और उसने यह बात युवक से छुपाई की उसकी बेटी किन्नर है।
शादी पक्की होने के बाद युवक ने पत्नी के पिता को 50 हजार रुपए के गहने भी दिए थे। इसके बाद 15 फरवरी को 2010 को युवक की उस लड़की से शादी करा दी गई। शादी के बाद युवक को जब इस बात का पता चला की उसकी पत्नी किन्नर है। यह जानने के बाद युवक ने कोर्ट का दरवाजा खटखटाया। दर्ज याचिका में युवक ने आरोप लगया है कि पत्नी के बाप ने उसके दिए गए 50 हजार के जेवर देने से इंकार कर दिया है।
Friday, August 20, 2010
Clear case of misuse of 498a- Lok Adalat reunites couple – husband and family was jailed for dowry harassment complaint which turned out to be TRIVIAL misunderstanding created by parents.
Clear case of misuse of 498a- Lok Adalat reunites couple – husband and family was jailed for dowry harassment complaint which turned out to be TRIVIAL misunderstanding created by parents.
BANGALORE: The Lok Adalat conducted by Bangalore Urban District Legal Service Authority turned into a marriage hall on Wednesday, as a couple who were separated over a domestic violence were reunited.
The Lok Adalat headed by City Metropolitan Magistrate (CMM) Ravindranath, convinced the couple Vadiraj (29) and Thripthi (28) to live together with their one-and-half-year-old son Ramaskanda.
The court hall turned into a mini marriage ceremony, after the couple decided to reunite and pleased judges also arranged a small programme to celebrate their ‘remarriage’. The couple’s advocate KC Gnanamurthy said, “We advocates must do this kind of service and not separate families, just to get cases.”
The mood at the Lok Adalat suddenly changed with the news and staff distributed sweets, while the couple exchanged garlands and took blessings of the CMM.
Vadiraj, who works as Assistant General Manager, in a private company married Thripthi on July 11, 2008. Soon after their marriage, Thripthi alleged harassment by her in laws and decided to go back to her parent’s house. Gnanamurthy said Thripthi was pregnant during the incident and stated that the misunderstanding between the couple was due to a trivial reason, created by their parents.
Gnanamurthy said, Thripthi filed a dowry harassment case with the Yelahanka New Town Police station on October 22, 2009 based on which Vadiraj and four of his relatives spent 14 days in jail. But the couple have finally decided to reconsider and Thripthi withdrew all the cases she had filed against Vadiraj and his family
http://expressbuzz.com/cities/bangalore/lok-adalat-reunites-couple/199601.html
Man accused of demanding dowry commits suicide – wife and her relatives booked for abetment to suicide
Man accused of demanding dowry commits suicide
VADODARA: A 33-year-old man committed suicide on Tuesday night after his wife registered a police complaint against him for demanding dowry. Dinesh Helaiya, who worked with a private company in Ahmedabad, consumed poison in a hotel room. Dinesh was taken to Bhailal Amin General Hospital where he died during treatment.
Cops have also registered a complaint against Manisha and her relatives for abetment to suicide. According to police, Dinesh and Manisha got married about seven years back and their marriage was in trouble. "They were at loggerheads for many years and used to fight a lot.
Manisha had filed a police complaint against him on Tuesday night, accusing him of demanding dowry. She alleged that her family had already paid lakhs of rupees in dowry and now he was demanding a car," police officials said.
"Manisha lodged a complaint on Tuesday night and he consumed suicide immediately after that. They have a two-year-old daughter," assistant sub-inspector Prabhudas Purshottam said. Police said the deceased had come down to meet Manisha and also take away his daughter who was staying with her. However, a fight ensued between them following which she approached the cops.
"Five people, including Manisha and her relatives, have been named in the complaint. But no one has been arrested as of yet," police officials said.